Boundary Pushers: How They Slowly Test You Not everyone pushes your boundaries aggressively. Honestly, most don’t. Most people do it slowly. Small comments. Small requests. Small moments where they quietly test: “How much can I move this person?” That’s why it works. Because nothing feels serious at first. Nothing feels dangerous. It feels casual. Harmless. Sometimes even flattering. And if you’re not paying attention, you don’t realize your boundaries are shifting until you’